
Yes!
Being the shrub in the midst of a bunch of buff trees in P.E. didn’t get me much notice either. In fact, I always seemed to be that kid that got picked last for dodge ball, or volleyball, or whatever game afforded me the opportunity to get picked last.
When your young, you never want to be last one! There’s a great lesson in being last though.
I’m learning in my more mature age of late thirty-something that while being number one is a great place to be, being last has its advantages too. It’s even necessary.
The first one in line is the way maker, the trailblazer, that fearless one to boldly go where no man has gone before. I’ve noticed too many number ones in life getting stuck on the old glory days! Nothing wrong with that, we all want to leave our mark. Sometimes, though, in our pursuit for number one we get so focused on getting somewhere we lose sight of what’s behind us. The Team. The one’s carrying the torches, the essentials for survival, the one’s ensuring our protection. It’s the guy on the tail end that sees what has happened up ahead. They adjust as to not make the same mistakes of those before them. In fact, they may even do it better by the time they reach the same spot as those before them.
There’s got to be some level of intimidation in that. Knowing that one guy triumphantly came and paved the way, only to be overshadowed by another who just seemed to glide on by. But intimidation is needless when you understand your place in line. A true number one wants someone to come and do it better.
You have to know your place. Some people can pave the way. Some can steer the pavement. Doesn’t make you any less of a person, it just means you have a different role, a different purpose.
I’ve discovered through tough times in life, I’m no trailblazer. But I can fix things. My name “Jason” in Greek means “healer.” I seem to live up to that in every aspect of my life. One primary purpose in my life is to heal. I’ve always had a knack to come in and fix things, businesses, equipment, and even people. I succeed most when I’m focused not on getting things going, but on getting things back to where they should be.
Discover more and more your purpose in life. Live up to that purpose. And don’t be ashamed. You are who you are for a purpose, for His purpose. Joseph in the Bible went through great adversity to eventually end up a great leader in Egypt, but he still wasn’t top dog. His place, however, ensured the survival of entire nations. He didn’t have to be number one to change the world.
I’ve always heard that nice guys finish last. I like to think that sometimes nice guys are just doing what needs to be done. And sometimes last is where they’re supposed to be.
Without a last… there can be no first.